Thoughts on love...

I have been thinking lately, thinking a lot, about things, about people, about love. Triggering the thought process are questions, questions for which there are no definite answers. Questions for which the more you search, the more you find how much less you know. Yes, I am talking about love, the hows and whys of it. The ins and outs of it.

The answers though for most of these questions have been elusive. But the important thing which I found compelling was the whole concept of ‘falling in love’. For, what I thought, one must rise, not fall in love. Love should be the force which makes us stronger, not weaker. What makes you weak, what distracts you from your priorities in life is not love. It is just a passing phase.

But what makes you stronger, what enables you to work even harder towards achieving your goals, what gives you the courage to carry on despite all odds, is what is commonly called love. That does not change with changing seasons. That is the one with a sense of permanence to it. That is what I think I am into. That is what I mean when I talk about rising in love.

Comments

Shreshth said…
nice, cute n lovely thoughts...well this is a combined comment to this one and the post below and in general to all the posts after the SS677 one...well what i will say now is something that i cant substantiate with examples and this is something that i dont even expect u to understand as of now but here are my two cents on love...love as u understand it today is not love, its the love of a poet love of an artist which will be confined to pen and brush!! be,ieve me on this n trust me, when u say "It is just a passing phase" it is really not it will stay, the things u would want to go away will stay and the ones u would want to stay will go away, slowly and slowly the mist will clear and u will realise that there is love and there is world...that there is love and then there is something called bigger love, this world of love my dear friend is not as lovely, it has a dark side ...yes a dark side, the sms'es and the thoughts and the smiles are not as good as they seem they have a dark side, it will take u some time to realte to all that i have said maybe a few years but realte u will and at that time when u read this comment u will say to urself "y the hell was i so naive that i didnt understand this" and always remeber what i said..."there is love and there is world and then there is a bigger love" what the world and bigger love are for u, u will come to know in due course of time...and its a gurantee the world and bigger love will win :D

sorry for such a comment, it doesnt come from a die hard fanatic from shiv sena or bajrang dal ;) also dont take it too seriously, just a few reflections that i had on love, also doesnt mean that all u have said is true about love, just another angle i gave to it :D
rejoice in love n do cherish these moments (which i can see u are)!!
Sid Saxena said…
i knw wat u mean wen u say " the things u would want to go away will stay and the ones u would want to stay will go away, slowly "...know dat only too well...par kya karen...
"...dil hai ke maanta nahi."
yes, i can relate to all of wat do said...but again...if...and only if...we all acted only on pure rationale n logic...its the heart which makes us all human...
i dont knw wat the future holds, maybe i knw...maybe, actually most probably it will not be all roses n dreams...
naive...yes, dreamer...obviously...
the bigger love n the world can wait...
but nyways...
...better to hv loved n lost...
then not loved at all.
i knw u would agree to dat!
Shreshth said…
...better to hv loved n lost...
then not loved at all.... definately agree

the bigger love n the world can wait... again naive :D:D:D:D

aur ladke machaa raha hai TIME mysore mein...ab kya free mein test series karega ;) chal good going :)
Sid Saxena said…
all accusations accepted.:-)
some mirages n illusions are better left untouched...call it being naive...but as i say..."...dil hai ke maanta nahi."
Shreshth said…
tu kabi nahi sudhrega majnu :D
lage raho :)
Caladrius said…
that was a pretty impressive post dude....so were all of ur previous ones..
Sid Saxena said…
thanks dude...hope u r rocking lucknow as well..tk...n all da best........
Shishir said…
sorry dude somehow just thought u would be blogging and what a coincidence u wrote abt love and i wrote abt love too..sorry worte abt not in love ..but a grt post so i know u r in love and loved ur thought of rising in love ..but a grt post.. and i know u would have certainly some comment abt my last post dying to hear ur wisdom for ur team member..hahaha when u'll read the post u'll know
Anonymous said…
hmmmmmmmmmm,nice thoughts........
rising in luv .......bt wid whom?big question.....wel dat only u can tel dat......i hope its nt infy campus or d hot babes dere?stil dnt get d ans....????????
Anonymous said…
hey finaly i m writing sumthng after d thoughts of team mirage arguing on diff,aspects of luv,bt wat il say z u rise in luv,n it makes one strong despite al odds.nyways u tk.
Sid Saxena said…
u know pretty well with whom...hahaha...ofcourse all the pretty girls here at infi...;-)

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